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The internet shows me a lot of content about notebooks. I’ve always been interested in notebooks and pens (how else do you think this ended up being my job? Chicken or egg question…), but since I’ve found my staples, I don’t venture out into the unknown much. A new-to-me black felt-tip pen set? Sure. New notebooks? Absolutely not, and it’s a kind of loss: I used to find so much hope in the possibility that a new notebook would change my life. The problem is that I found the new notebooks that changed my life and now I don’t see any reason to deviate. When I want a new notebook, it will be a sign that something is wrong.

Every notebook person has put Joan Didion’s words from “On Keeping a Notebook” on her LiveJournal, part out of self-aggrandizement but also because it’s extremely true, offering recognition not found in the real world:

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The impulse to write things down is a peculiarly compulsive one, inexplicable to those who do not share it, useful only accidentally, only secondarily, in the way that any compulsion tries to justify itself. I suppose that it begins or does not begin in the cradle. Although I have felt compelled to write things down since I was five years old, I doubt that my daughter ever will, for she is a singularly blessed and accepting child, delighted with life exactly as life presents itself to her, unafraid to go to sleep and unafraid to wake up. Keepers of private notebooks are a different breed altogether, lonely and resistant rearrangers of things, anxious malcontents, children afflicted apparently at birth with some presentiment of loss.

I’ve been on the Louise Carmen train since 2018, and this system of having three separate notebooks in one leather sheath has been the thing that has fixed me, so to speak. I use Baron Fig cahiers to refill it, and each one serves a distinct purpose: weekly to-do list, with intentions and meeting or other notes on the opposite page; a meal planning notebook that used to be my recipe notebook, until I stopped regularly developing them; and finally a journal and brainstorming notebook. One keeps me organized, another keeps me sane about food, and the other is where I am free. 

Here, I’m explaining how I use them, my to-do list philosophy, and a link to a page of writer resources that I’ll be consistently updating.

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Marissa O2 months ago

I love notebooks. I am working my way towards "my system"...your recipe one would be my wine tasting notebook and wine in general. another one is all things to do with writing and the other the daily/journal. I have also started inserting a travel notebook that captures all the notes when i go on a trip-taped receipts, cards, wine labels, etc.

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Christoph Grosse1 year ago

Had to come back and read this piece for a second time!

I think about your point about people being steered places via social media rather than their own research, specifically for restaurants that never asked for this - the ones which some influencer(s) "discovered" and diverted the algorithm to, creating lines down the block for what might have been a chill, neighborhood spot, diminishing the quality of the food, service, or the experience, especially for previous regulars.

Restaurants that lean into the algorithm, though, the ones that were previously tourist traps or open as such, "good view, bad food" places, feel increasingly optimal for our culture of influence, rather than taste. People want the same tastes as everybody else. I feel like I have a good bead on "what's good" or at least how to avoid those kinds of places, but I still fall for it from time to time (and nothing makes me more upset than paying for a mediocre meal, even if the view is pretty!).

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Lena Mattar1 year ago

Hey Alicia! I have never used Beehiiv before. My paid subscription is still valid here? Do I have to create an account?

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Alicia KennedyAuthor1 year ago

Hi! Comments are only for paid subscribers and if you didn't hit a paywall, you're good. You can log in (as you have) and manage your subscription by making a password, if you like.

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Ivana Martínez1 year ago

The dopamine I get from reading these kinds of granular dives into personal process is UNMATCHED✨

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Alicia KennedyAuthor1 year ago

I wrote all my August posts for those of us who live for process!

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Marisa D.1 year ago

Oh, I am very very tempted by these Baron Figs.

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Alicia KennedyAuthor1 year ago

They're great notebooks and the company is worker-owned!

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Denise A.1 year ago

I loved reading this! I only use a notebook for morning pages, and buy them at thrift shops. I love how gorgeous yours are, but will not be tempted :) Thanks, too, for the Writer Resources list. I also really like Matthew Salesses' "Craft in the Real World:" it's for (mostly) fiction writers, and I've found it helpful and interesting. One more for fiction writers: "The Anti-Racist Writing Workshop" by Felicia Rose Chavez. She has such fantastic suggestions for how to respond to others' writing in a workshop setting, but they're applicable to much writing, I think.

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Alicia KennedyAuthor1 year ago

ooh thanks for these recs!