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Aug 9, 2022Liked by Alicia Kennedy

Puerto Rico is a place that holds some very special memories for me. It was a honeymoon destination, which is whatever, but we were 26 and broke and just wanted an adventure. The first afternoon, I got cracked on the head by an almond, sitting under a tree on a beach in Isla Verde. We were dangerously under-hydrated, puffy and damp. We brewed coffee in a little percolator in our $28/night guest room, ate fruit from the stands on the corners, and splurged on one "Indo-Rican fusion" meal in Old San Juan with a cardamom martini that changed my life. I chatted with grandmas selling sandwiches on the beach, and one even got her adult son to give me some "pasto" as a "wedding gift." (!!!) I bought a sandwich from her every day for a week. We watched a hurricane sweep in from the beach, and brought two stray puppies into the room secretly, to keep them from the storm. Magic everywhere, when you're open to receiving it.

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Aug 8, 2022Liked by Alicia Kennedy

Thank you for brief exodus outside of my own small space. Your words made me forget where I was for a moment.

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The greatest compliment—thank you

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Such a good wander through the subject of place. I just took a class in essays and we learned to look for aphorisms in them. I think these are two A+ ones: “San Juan is an easy place to love and a difficult place to live.” and “One life cannot swallow a city whole, though certainly it can be attempted.”

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I would appreciate a list of any coffee shops that may offer a non-dairy option. Thank you!

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All coffee shops here at this point have non-dairy options.

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Thank you! I work for an airline and have layovers in SJU. I plan to visit https://www.gustoscoffeeco.com/ on my next trip unless there is another spot you recommend.

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Cafe Regina is really fabulous!

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Thank you! I can't wait to visit!

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Loved this article - answered many questions for me about retiring in Old San Juan. I was born and raised in Puerto Rico, and loved to enter the mindfulness world of eating those almonds. Worth the time and effort. I guess I can return back to Puerto Rico and savor its painful magic again.

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Great piece Alicia, Thank you. I've been thinking a lot about what I lose by staying in big cities- first NYC now LA. I no longer feel the need to form an opinion about the best new restaurants because, to your point, the price so rarely makes it feel worthwhile. Nothing can beat a farmer's market bag and lunch on the patio while I study squirrel acrobatics and hummingbird dives. So why am I here, still?

In Panama earlier this year I tried to free an almond with no tool and also wished for a machete while thirsty around an abundance of coconuts. Those details so perfectly describe the fine line between what makes a place beautiful, difficult, worthwhile. <3

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